Masturbation Episode Summary:
On this week’s episode of Dating Kinda Sucks, Sarah and Adam talk about masturbation. Whether you’re choking the bishop, flicking the bean, spanking your monkey, or slow dancing with BOB, masturbation in a relationship is a hot-button topic. Is it healthy to flog the neighbor when you’re committed to someone? Is taking one for the team going to affect your sex life, your intimacy, or your relationship? Should you jerk the chicken if you’re dating? All of these topics and more will be covered, as well as some embarrassing and mortifying masturbation stories from your hosts. Listen and let’s stroke this one out together!
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Dating Kinda Sucks Commentary
Season Two Episode Twenty-Six
Host Thoughts on Masturbating in a Relationship
Let’s make a promise to never be afraid to explore our sexual desires. Masturbating is just as important as any other method of self care out there! Your sexual preferences change over time and you need that alone time to explore what gets you going. There’s nothing wrong with masturbating while in a relationship. As long as you aren’t using it to avoid sex or other problems in your relationship, I fully encourage you to masturbate in front of your partner and then allow he or she to join in when needed.
Listen, as long as you’re not doing it at the expense of intimacy and sex with your partner, feel free to shimmy up the maypole all day long. Ride the pillow like a cowboy, do your laundry one-handed, and shake hands with the barber all you want. But if it affects your relationship, it’s time to have a talk about what the underlying reasons are. There are bigger problems happening in your relationship than your need to touch yourself.