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S06E12: Is That The Jonah Hill You’re Going To Die On?

Jonah Hill Controversy Episode Boundaries are essential to any healthy relationship. But when does it transform from a healthy boundary to unhealthy abuse? What is the line between controlling someone’s behavior and setting behaviors for a respectful relationship? Sarah and Adam discuss the recent Jonah Hill controversy and talk about why his behavior was not…

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S06E11: Respecting Dating App Boundaries

Respecting and Setting Boundaries on Dating Apps Dating apps give you the opportunity to set boundaries with regards to your safety, and when people push or violate those boundaries, it’s a huge red flag. Adam and Sarah talk about when it is and is not okay to find someone in real life or on social…

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S06E10: Tone Policing: Time To Stop Being So Polite To Men

Tone Policing: Time to Stop Being Polite to Men Tone policing is one of the most pervasive examples of male privilege and systemic misogyny in society today. Why are assertive women called bossy and shamed for their tones when assertive men are promoted? Why is society obsessed with being “ladylike” or polite as a way…

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S06E09: Love Languages Are Trash

Are Love Languages Trash? One of the most popular discussions among people in relationships revolves around love languages. While it seems nice to have our relationships tied up in such pretty little bows, the reality is that love languages are trash. The author, a misogynistic homophobic old pastor, created the concept as a way to…

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S06E08: The “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” Group: Inappropriate or Indispensable?

“Are We Dating The Same Guy” – Let’s Discuss this Facebook Group The Facebook Group “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” that’s cropped up in every city gives women a way to screen out the dirtbags, sociopaths, and narcissists, or find out if they’re dating or married to one, but is there a dark side…

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S06E07: Dating Horror Stories

Dating Horror Stories Episode Summary This week, Sarah and Adam dive into the foul depths of the Internet to bring you some of the darkest and weirdest dating and relationship stories. But that’s not all! This week has the Chilean edition of “What to See With Sarah G”, a DKS meetup in Seattle on Thursday,…

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S06E06: Is Pretty Privilege Real?

Is Pretty Privilege Real or Objectification Episode Summary This week, your hosts discuss the concept of pretty privilege. Is it a real thing, and if pretty people do get more advantages in life while the rest of us uggos get nothing, is it actually a privilege or a curse in disguise? Could it be that…

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S06E05: Was it just a Fight or Are They Toxic?

Recognizing Toxic People Episode Summary Friendships and relationships can be tricky, but one important tool to navigate them is to recognize toxicity and cut it out of your life. This week, your hosts talk about those people in your life with whom you may occasionally get into arguments, and help you identify if it was…

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S06E04: Pair Bonding and Promiscuity

Pair Bonding and Promiscuity Episode Summary Before you listen to this episode, call the DKS Hotline at 407-519-0181 and ask us a question! Done? Great. The new trend in toxic man culture and women shaming is a nonsense phrase called “pair bonding” and how it applies to a woman’s sex life (never the man’s, of…

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S06E03: Dating While Broke

Dating While Broke Episode Summary With so many layoffs happening and so many people suffering financially, dating can seem daunting. Your hosts talk about the best mindset to have if you’re dating while watching your budget, and ways to avoid losing more money while going on dates. Also this week, Sarah goes on a hot…

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