adam avitable podcast

S03E28: How To Give Great Gifts

Gift Giving Episode Summary: Finding the right gift for a friend, partner, lover, or f*ck buddy can be difficult – it takes good listening, open communication, observation skills, and some good old-fashioned luck! Your hosts will give you some great tips for finding that perfect gift for someone who matters to you. Also in this…

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S03E27: Finding That Special Someone the Old-Fashioned Way

Old-Fashioned Dating Episode Summary: If the dating apps aren’t working for you, should you try to meet someone the old-fashioned way? Or should you adjust your approach to using the apps to maximize their benefit and yours? Your hosts give you all the info you need to make sure you’re not searching in vain! Also…

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S03E26: Have Good Sex, Not Bad Sex

Having Good Sex Episode Summary: Are you having good sex or bad sex? This week, your hosts talk about the importance of good sex, and how to transform a middling sex life into one that tickles the cockles of your heart and strengthens your interpersonal relationships. Also in this episode, Sarah talks about double-fisting, Adam…

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S03E25: What is the Role of Social Media in Relationships?

Social Media and Relationships Episode Summary: From being Facebook official to simply being Facebook friends, social media has added a modern complication to relationships. When should you add your significant other on FB? Does your boyfriend follow your finsta? Does your f*ckbuddy favorite your tweets? We’ll break down the healthiest way to incorporate social media…

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S03E24: Is The Girl Code (or Guy Code) Real?

Calling Dibs Episode Summary: Is there such a thing as the girl code (or guy code) when it comes to adult relationships? Do you owe it to a friend to ask before dating or pursuing a mutual friend or ex? When, if at all, is it okay to call “dibs”? Your hosts dive into this…

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S03E23: Destigmatizing Sex Work

Sex Worker Episode Summary: While Sarah travels around the Badlands of South Dakota by herself (never to be seen again?), Adam interviews Aubrie, a professional full-service sex worker, about her life and the misconceptions people have about her, in an attempt to further remove the stigma surrounding sex work. Also in this episode, Sarah updates…

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S03E22: Fleabagging: Why Do We Make Bad Dating Choices?

Fleabagging Episode Summary: Why do we make such bad choices when we’re dating? Is it a learning experience or just self-flagellation? This week, Sarah and Adam talk about fleabagging, which is a recently coined phrase describing the art of consistently dating people who are quite obviously wrong for you. Also in this episode, Sarah cries…

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S03E21: The Search for Good Porn

Finding Good Porn Episode Summary: In a quest to discover whether or not she enjoys porn, Sarah has spent the past two weeks reviewing a veritable motherlode of porn clips – a pornucopia, if you will – compiled by Adam. Watching everything from gay to fetish, trans to hotwife, Sarah’s ready to talk about what…

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S03E19: Navigating the New Normal – Sex and Dating During COVID-19

New Normal Episode Summary: “I’ll just wait and do it once things get back to normal.” It’s too easy to put off everything – dating, sex, relationships, life – until the COVID-19 outbreak is over, but when will that be? When will things really get back to normal? Sarah and Adam try to offer some…

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S03E18: Nobody Wants A Dating Pen Pal

Penpals Episode Summary: Whether you’re dating in the middle of the great pandemic apocalypse of 2020 or in whatever wasteland exists after, nobody likes a pen pal. How do you make it clear that you’re ready to meet and done with anyone who just wants to text “So how was your day?” every morning for…

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