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S04E17: Male Privilege: Myth or Reality?

Male Privilege Episode Summary: What is male privilege? Does it exist at all, or is it a fantasy crafted by women who just want men to show some f**kin’ empathy? You can probably guess what direction this episode will take, but you may be surprised! Also in this episode: Sarah plans the next stage of…

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S04E16: Embracing Sexual Mindfulness

Mindful Sex Episode Summary: Post-pandemic sex has been different, but in what ways? Adam and Sarah talk about sexual mindfulness and how many people are getting pickier when it comes to their sexual partners, focusing more on deep connections and sensual explorations than unfulfilling quickies with men who don’t care about your pleasure. Also in…

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S04E14: Respecting And Setting Boundaries

Healthy Boundaries Episode Summary: Healthy boundaries are the cornerstone to a healthy life, and Adam and Sarah spend this episode talking about how to set boundaries and just as importantly, how to respect the boundaries others have set. Also this week, Adam’s writing a book, Sarah’s signing a lease with her boyfriend, and some poor…

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S04E12: The Many Types of Rejection

Rejection Episode Summary: Rejection can take many forms, and it’s never easy to deal with. In this episode, Adam and Sarah talk about the best ways to approach being rejected, healthy tools for dealing with it, and why it’s never appropriate to get defensive or act like a child when you get rejected. Also in…

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S04E04: Are You Codependent?

Codependency Episode Summary: What better way to follow up an episode about Valentine’s Day than to look at codependency? Sarah and Adam talk about all of the ways that being codependent can show up in a relationship, and how best to deal with it. Is any form of codependency unhealthy? Are there good types? Listen…

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S03E29: Is It Time For A Dating Detox?

Going on a Dating Detox Episode Summary For the last episode of the year, Sarah and Adam talk about when it’s a good time to give yourself a break from dating and focus on yourself for a bit. There’s no timeline and no deadline, but everyone needs a break occasionally, especially during this clusterf*ck of…

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S03E28: How To Give Great Gifts

Gift Giving Episode Summary: Finding the right gift for a friend, partner, lover, or f*ck buddy can be difficult – it takes good listening, open communication, observation skills, and some good old-fashioned luck! Your hosts will give you some great tips for finding that perfect gift for someone who matters to you. Also in this…

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S03E27: Finding That Special Someone the Old-Fashioned Way

Old-Fashioned Dating Episode Summary: If the dating apps aren’t working for you, should you try to meet someone the old-fashioned way? Or should you adjust your approach to using the apps to maximize their benefit and yours? Your hosts give you all the info you need to make sure you’re not searching in vain! Also…

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S03E26: Have Good Sex, Not Bad Sex

Having Good Sex Episode Summary: Are you having good sex or bad sex? This week, your hosts talk about the importance of good sex, and how to transform a middling sex life into one that tickles the cockles of your heart and strengthens your interpersonal relationships. Also in this episode, Sarah talks about double-fisting, Adam…

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S03E25: What is the Role of Social Media in Relationships?

Social Media and Relationships Episode Summary: From being Facebook official to simply being Facebook friends, social media has added a modern complication to relationships. When should you add your significant other on FB? Does your boyfriend follow your finsta? Does your f*ckbuddy favorite your tweets? We’ll break down the healthiest way to incorporate social media…

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