DKS S03E17: Is it Lust or Love?

Lust vs. Love Episode Summary:

In that moment right after you have a mind-melting orgasm, you might want to tell the passionate provider of your pleasure that you love them. But is that love or is it lust? In this episode, your hosts will try to help you figure out if you’re thinking with your heart, or with the heart in your pants. Also in this episode: Adam writes a letter to Penthouse, Sarah has a sensory deprivation experience, and we have stickers for sale at!

Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on all aspects of dating, sex, and relationships, promoting a lifestyle of transparency, openness, and healthy communication as a path to happiness. It is created, edited, and produced by Sarah G. and Adam Heath Avitable.

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Dating Kinda Sucks Commentary
Season Three, Episode Seventeen

Is it Love or Lust?

Host Thoughts on Love or Lust

As I continue to date and develop feelings, the more I realize that past “love” feelings were mostly driven by lust. Overall, take your time and slow it down. There is no rush to be in a relationship or to get married. 

I fall in love constantly. Just a pretty smile, or beautiful eyes, and I’m madly in love. It’s not actually love, obviously – it’s nothing but pure unadulterated lust. But I still call it love when it happens!

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